 |  Business Communication: Building Critical Skills Kitty O. Locker,
Ohio State University Steven Kyo Kaczmarek,
Columbus State Community College Kathryn Braun,
Sheridan College
Listening
E-Learning Session- What do good listeners do? They consciously follow four practices.
- Pay attention.
- Focus on the other speakers in a generous way.
- Avoid making assumptions.
- Listen for feelings as well as facts.
- CONCEPT CHECK True or False: In general,
people are good listeners, so there's no reason to spend a lot of time
trying to improve your skills. CONCEPT CHECK
- What is active listening? Feeding back the literal meaning, the emotional
content, or both.
- Use active listening to demonstrate that you've heard and understood
a speaker. TRANSPARENCY MASTER
- Active listening takes time and energy-even people who are skilled listeners
can do it all the time.
- CONCEPT CHECK True or False: Paraphrasing
in not a form of active listening, though summarizing is. CONCEPT CHECK
- Blocking responses create problems in listening.
TRANSPARENCY MASTER
- How do I show people that I'm listening to them? Acknowledge their
comments in words, nonverbal symbols, and actions.
- Use acknowledgement responses.
- Responses can differ according to culture.
- Mainstream U.S. culture shows attention and involvement by making eye
contact, leaning forward, and making acknowledgement responses.
- CONCEPT CHECK True or False: Use the
same acknowledgement responses with all audiences. CONCEPT CHECK
- Can I use these techniques if I really disagree with someone? Yes!
- Most of us do our worst listening when we are in highly charged emotional
situations.
- At minimum, good listening enables you to find out why your opponent objects
to the programs or ideas you support.
- Good listening is critical when you are criticized, especially by your
boss.
- Good listening can also
- Show people you're taking them seriously.
- Show people that you respect them.
- Encourage them, in turn, to respect you.
- Go to the Self-Quizzes section if you would like to test your understanding
of this module.
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